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Survivor's Coach slams critics

BY CHRIS SCHULZ
Last updated 05:00 07/08/2009
Survivor victim Benjamin 'Coach' Wade says he walked away from Survivor: Tocantins as 'a noble warrior'.
HEAD HELD HIGH: Survivor victim Benjamin 'Coach' Wade says he walked away from Survivor: Tocantins as 'a noble warrior'.

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EXCLUSIVE: Infamous Survivor contestant Benjamin "Coach" Wade has defended his controversial behaviour, and says claims that he made up outlandish stories to tell the tribe are "humiliating".

Wade, a football coach at a girl's school in Missouri and symphony orchestra conductor, was eliminated from Survivor: Tocantins after a rough episode that saw him spend several barren nights on Exile Island before collapsing during a failed attempt to win an immunity challenge.  

At Tribal Council, a poetry-spouting Wade sparred with fellow contestant Erinn Lobdell, before Stephen Fishbach helped blindside him. Four competitors are left in the running for the show's US$1 million prize: Lobdell, Fishbach, Tamara Johnson-George and James "JT" Thomas Jr.

Wade become a Survivor fan favourite after telling his tribe a tall tale involving an escape from cannibal pygmies while paddling down the Amazon river. In separate interviews, evictees Tyson Apostol and Sierra Reed questioned the story's authenticity.

But the 37-year-old told Stuff.co.nz it happened about 13 years ago and that all his stories were true.

"I think those that have not done like to throw stones at those that have done," he said. "Of course it's going to happen. You put yourself out there on the front line in the environment, what's going to happen?

"You think I'm going to shake hands with the natives, pat the crocodiles and let the piranhas tickle my belly on the way down while I'm floating on the river?"

Wade, who labelled himself "The Dragon Slayer" after helping blindside Brendan Synnott out of the game, said he was sick of having to defend himself against accusations he was lying.

"I'm tired of people trying to shame me. I'm tired of people rolling their eyes at my stories. I didn't tell them so you would think that I was a man. I told them at a time when I thought it would help the tribe.

"It hurts me and it bothers me. The ridicule and humiliation that I've faced was atrocious and unnecessary most of the time."

Wade - who also claimed he practiced a form of meditation that was so rare it wasn't on Google - said he was never interested in winning the show's US$1 million prize.

"I didn't care about the million dollars - I've never been motivated by money. I wanted to go down there and put my stamp on the game and try to show everybody that you can be a real man and have values and not play this game like a snake.

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He was happy with his performance but admitted he had been humbled by the controversy he had caused. Despite this, Wade said he walked away as a "noble warrior".

"The night that I left, my first comment was, 'I don't understand why they would keep someone like Erinn over me.' But I left when I needed to leave. To have the biggest impact, it had to culminate in the hero, or the warrior, or the villain, or whatever you want to call me, exit.

"So looking back on it, the timing was perfect. I never compromised my loyalty with anybody, I always voted for who I said I was going to vote, I never told somebody a lie. I'm very happy with how I played the game."

He admitted he had a "larger than life" personality and said he had become popular among Survivor fans for that reason.

"There are various things I did for the cameras. I do not call myself 'The Dragon Slayer,' but I do give people nicknames. I like to be different. I like to be the salmon that swims upstream and is different from the rest of the pack.

"So I think people liked that. People saw this character that they could either love or they could hate.

"But as they say, 'Love me or hate me, but don't ignore me'."

Survivor: Tocantins screens at 7.30pm every Thursday on TV3. Stuff.co.nz will interview every contestant as they are eliminated.

* Did Coach deserve to go home? Post your comments below.

 

- © Fairfax NZ News

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Cam   #48   02:03 am Mar 11 2010

Coach did one of the worst acts ever. I feel so sorry for Sierra. She was the only one bein honest and she gets coach callin her a liar and continuing on with it after he has gone

cd1   #47   11:45 am Aug 31 2009

Dawgonit....I live in California and met Ben Wade in March 2009. He has become a friend of mine....and I will vouch for his authenticity of his unbelievable exploits.....Those that know him have nothing but praise for the man....of course there are always some that attempt to destroy, regardless of fact (heresay is their motivator). I am looking forward to Ben returning from the filming of Season 20 of Survivor, which is now being taped in Samoa......It will air probably sometime next February (2010).....But now we get to anticipate S-19 which will start airing in the U.S. on September 17......But however you may decide to 'cut and dice' it, Survivor is great.......cd1

Jenny Goldbert   #46   09:59 am Aug 09 2009

Yes, I'm so glad Coach has gone. He was so egotistical and so full of himself. As the saying goes: "Pride goes before a fall!"

JP   #45   07:14 pm Aug 08 2009

Mr Ford #41 - Guess you did the same as me and googled it!!! Oh Coach, one to remember! There's always one person they keep on for the pure entertainment and this season it was him. I thought it would all come out that this was his plan all along to play the part, but seems it really is who he is! Baaaaaaaaaaaa Haaaaaaaaa Haaaaaaaaa

trace   #44   07:45 pm Aug 07 2009

Salmon DO swim upstream you dim wit! Thank goodness he's gone and we don't have to listen to his incessant drivel. He never shut up! The mute button was used a lot.

CP   #43   04:38 pm Aug 07 2009

He's an absolute twit, full of his own self importance. Gee, hasnt this show had it's day. I watched this series two weeks running and that was enough! Boring. Blah.

k   #42   04:35 pm Aug 07 2009

sorry missed some of that..... still rolling my eyes

Mr Ford   #41   03:48 pm Aug 07 2009

@ JC #21

I dont think JT will need to win immunity, i have a feeling he'll be ok...

Kevin Cooke   #40   02:08 pm Aug 07 2009

For all those KNOW-IT-ALL 'Doubting Thomas' individuals out there that think (or rather DON'T think) that there are no pygmies in Brazil... the following is an extract from Wikipedia, the free online encyclopedia,

Pygmy is a term used for various ethnic groups worldwide whose average height is unusually low; anthropologists define pygmy as any group whose adult males grow to less than 150 cm (4 feet 11 inches) in average height. The best known pygmies are the Aka, Efé and Mbuti of central Africa. There are also pygmies in Thailand, Malaysia, Indonesia, the Philippines, Papua New Guinea, Brazil and Bolivia.

I just thought i would put in my 2 centavos worth... hehe!

Bobby_Birman   #39   02:06 pm Aug 07 2009

How do you identify a double liar ? - he lies that he never lied.


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