Achiever deals to bullying

BY RHIANNON HORRELL

An inspirational 17-year-old who was once bullied has turned her experience into motivation, with plans to write a book.

Diocesan School for Girls student Lydia Hoby-Sharpe was born with a craniofacial abnomaly, which affects her breathing and causes severe hearing loss.

She says in addition to her differences, she was bullied during her younger years because she excelled in her studies.

"I didn't know how to deal with it. I was pleasant to everyone.

"It's about intolerance. Everyone has a difference and just because some people have more obvious differences, it doesn't make them a better or worse person."

Because of her speech impediment she has learnt to deal with people not always understanding what she is saying.

"I find that the greatest embarrassment is usually on their part. Generally I say something like: 'Oh, don't worry' and I either repeat it again or write it down."

Lydia now plans to write a book outlining how people with disabilities can cope with bullying.

She has been considering the idea for two years and is researching the unique angle.

The Westmere teenager says even though there are books for parents on bullying, there is nothing specific for people with disabilities and it is unchartered territory.

"I want to help people. This is a big problem."

Lydia received the Quota Community Champion Award earlier this year, which honours young women who have responded to challenges in their lives by meeting them head on and inspiring others.

The school nominated her and she says she was flattered to receive the recognition.

"It acted as an encouragement to keep on going - with academic work, violin and the book.

"I'm feeling quite motivated."

Lydia has played the violin since she was five and is part of the school's orchestra and chamber ensemble.

The busy student is working towards the two-year International Baccalaureate Diploma, with plans to embark on a career in criminal law or international law and become a diplomat.

Diocesan deputy principal Jayne-Ann Young says Lydia impressed her immediately with her self-awareness and relentless cheerfulness.

Lydia joined the school at the start of the year and has settled in quickly.

"She somewhat surprises us with the depth and breadth of her interests, and how much time she invests in extra-curricular activities.

"She is prepared to be involved and give everything a go, she has maturity and the ability to work on a platform of expecting excellence."

Lydia hopes to have the first draft of her book complete by the end of the Christmas holidays.

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