Smacking poll in hands of mother

BY NICK VENTER
Last updated 05:00 30/06/2009
LAST WORD: The referendum on the anti-smacking law will not go ahead if  promoter Sheryl Savill withdraws her petition.
LAST WORD: The referendum on the anti-smacking law will not go ahead if promoter Sheryl Savill withdraws her petition.

Related Links

Smacking poll's instigator urged to pull referendum Youtube video seen as desperate: Barnardos Dads urge 'yes' vote in smacking poll MPs slate smacking poll words Smacking poll 'won't alter law' 77pc oppose anti-smacking poll

Relevant offers

Politics

More claims about PM's man Seas law puts 'economy before environment' Row heats up over Whanau Ora funds Maori queue-jumping for SOEs raised John Key's radio show referred to police Ties, boots and sausages on minds of new MPs Does David Shearer want to be Tony Blair? Minimum wage rising by 50c Mallard attacks National over hui appointment Student load bill 'absolute disaster'

The dark-haired, bespectacled woman talking forcefully across an outdoor table laden with scones, cake and drinks on Family First's pro-smacking website does not have a bionic arm and cannot run faster than a speeding car. But Sheryl Savill is New Zealand's $6 million woman.

The mother of two and policeman's wife will have the final say this week on whether another $6m is spent on a referendum that Prime Minister John Key says the Government will ignore.

That is because the petition calling for a referendum on the anti-smacking law was submitted in her name.

A spokeswoman for the chief electoral officer said yesterday that $700,000 had already been spent preparing for the August referendum and a public information campaign costing $2.2m had also begun.

If the referendum goes ahead it will cost another $6m. However, if Ms Savill withdraws her petition before the governor-general issues the writ, the last day for which is Friday, the referendum can be cancelled.

Family First director Bob McCoskrie and petition organiser Larry Baldock say that will not happen unless the Government agrees to decriminalise smacking.

"The consequences of this law remaining in New Zealand are far too serious and will cost the country far more than the cost of the referendum," Mr Baldock said.

He said Ms Savill, who is in the United States on a family holiday, was chosen as the petition promoter because she was a mother.

"She was concerned about the law and as a young mum felt she was prepared to put her name to it."

Ms Savill, 40, has asked petition organisers not to give her contact details to the news media, but her views are explained in the video produced for the Vote No website. "I'm the mum of two lovely girls and when I realised how the anti-smacking law would directly affect the way I was raising my girls I knew that I had to do something," she says, children and friends seated nearby.

"A light smack done in a good home that's full of love sure isn't child abuse."

Mr McCoskrie said Ms Savill's girls were aged about eight and 11. He declined to say whether she smacked them. "I can't answer that. I won't answer that on her behalf. I'm not going to comment on her parenting practice. All I know is that she is supporting the law change."

Ad Feedback

Ms Savill, of South Auckland, works as a "communicator" for a conservative critics say Right wing evangelical organisation, Focus on the Family. Its headquarters are in the United States and it offers advice on parenting and marriage.

- © Fairfax NZ News

41 comments
Post a comment
Murray   #41   12:43 pm Jul 03 2009

I have frequently bemoaned that we have this large and costly resource of academics, including a large research budget, but they appear to stay in their ivory towers and not give benefit to the wider public (outside the lecturing of students).

Steve Maharey is a sociologist and we have him to thank for a lot of progressive social change during Helen Clark's Labour-led government, but, as Vice Chancellor of Massey University, what articles do you now read which have been written by him or his subordinates. One is inclined to think that his professionalism is now wasted.

I wonder if the academics fear for their funding, and I am aware that Steve Maharey's predecessor acknowledges professional associates who have not succumbed to a pervading collegiate constraint within the Academia, and who will demonstrably support individual expression.

We craved for knowledge about this global economic crisis and for so long could only read that it was "not understandable - beyond comprehension".

But when New Zealand's academics have spoken out, the outcome has so frequently been highly dissappointing. The Head of Economics at Auckland University recently spoke publicly about the NZ Superannuation Fund - I maintain his hypotheses were highly questionable from a theoretical/non-political point of view.

Recently, I did read an article by a NZ academic on the S.59 law. He wrote how "force" against a child was enabled in four circumstances, but he did not distinguish between "force" for restraint which would not involve "smacking" and "force" for correction which would almost certainly involve "smacking" or some variant.

If I decide I have given approaching traffic adequate time to slow down and step-out onto the pedestrian crossing it is my decision and another adult has no right to restrain me - he would be using unlawful force against me and that would be assault. Obviously, a child must be restrained in these circumstances, but any consequent "smacking" would be for the purposes of correction - not restraint.

Suffice to say, in my opinion and for whatever reason, our Academia is somewhat woeful regarding its wider public duty.

Rex   #40   11:29 am Jul 03 2009

Sorry Kiwi Chick but your "evidence" is flawed. So what if you can find studies commissioned by people with an agenda that "proves" your point of view. Cigarette manufacturers produced a multitude of studies that "proved" smoking tobacco was harmless.

You offer no comparison with other European countries or analysis of other contributing factors.

Take a look at http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Crime_in_Sweden and tell me how that backs up your hysterical wailing about bodies heaped on doorsteps. I'm not saying that Wikipedia is the font of all knowledge but surely if Sweden's anti-smacking laws had the effect you claim someone would have noted it.

But enough. You have your opinion and I have mine. We disagree. Let's leave it at that.

You are shrill and unbalanced and refuse to recognise the difference between your opinion and fact. You are always RIGHT and everyone else is always WRONG. You play the man not the ball and don't seem to understand the worthlessness of putting words in other people's mouths then arguing against those imagined viewpoints.

This is my last response to you and you are welcome to have the last word. I would never have tried to engage you in a battle of wits if I had known you were unarmed. Goodbye.

Kiwi Chick   #39   01:43 am Jul 03 2009

"You are so critical of the orthodox Churches" you say and Murray you love those non entities mutual back scrtching pawns of politicians when trying to ram their views down normal Chrisitans throats. I don't think it is exactly "criticism" to highlight the fact their leaders rather often publicly proclaim they don't believe the book they preach from nor the God that that book claims wrote it or even a God at all...That is just pointing out a grand Contadiction. And what that has to do with smacking a rebel Kid kicking holes in the wall I am still to find out. But since it is so important to you... They are a oddity that once lead what I think most Christians would say is no longer a relevant of even real part of the church. I say that to highlight your folly in claiming it is unchristian to not agree with such. For the atheist agnostic or whatever you areyou have alot of demands on something you don&t believe in. So What has Christianity have to do with this? you continually over and over come back to it. You are really very messed up there.

And Aaaah? One more paragraph harping about Christians... What has Brian Tamaki got to do with anything!

Do you have some point to make???

Are you still in Fantasyland thinking that 85% of Kiwis are Churchies or even 50% or even 10%.

Your obsession with Christians is really scary...

I haven't heard Family first leveling sermons at people..They do though push scientific facts from the academia about whom you continually complain don't produce the studies that Must of course show what you imagine to be the truth. Because you knows the truth because you are 'Murray the knower of truth'. Well at least in your opinion, you who need not do any research into the matter as you "are convinced"

Any way time to kiss my little one good night! Happy Paranoia there.

Perhaps we let this thrashed and fruitless flogging of a dead horse die now and save some space on Stuffs hard drive.

Eh? No one is reading your sturdy points of fact and logic this far down the page no anyway.

Sleep tight! and Don't let the bed bugs bite!

Murray   #38   05:52 pm Jul 02 2009

I do not know what Bishop Brian Tamaki is preaching to his Destiny Church followers these days - are his sermons still televised?

It appears that he is no longer protesting and mobilising the troops into the streets.

I think Sheryl Savill will pull the referendum tonight, unless she plans to remain in America and at no time face questioning from New Zealanders about a misspent $6 million.

Either McCoskrie or Baldock told the Prime Minister they would pull it, conditional to an ultimatum. Poor Sheryl Savill is just a pawn for these self-agrrandising clerics.

They wanted an attractive face to front the petition and shore up the chances of the deceptive wording attracting enough signatories.

You are so critical of the orthodox Churches, Kiwi Chick(#12), but your own contemptuous language is not at all godfearing.

Kiwi Chick   #37   04:11 pm Jul 02 2009

"If there could be more material from the Academia which assists people......Blah Blah" Same garbage from the same bin. Been their done that Murray. Read the many posts above and stop spewing your c rap. Material provided - you rejected to look at it. End of story Mr Macademia you forgot the M again... you only want nuts! Not academia

Murray   #36   03:19 pm Jul 02 2009

As far as I am concerned, the matter is commonsense, KiwiChick(#34) - plain commonsense.

I am sure the predominant academic opinion is that force should not be used against children for the purpose of correction, or else the Families Commission would be taking a different stance. They would be dying to support what was the original view of the National Party until John Key realised he was on the wrong - and I mean WRONG - side of the fence. They would be dying to support what remains the view of the low polling Act Party. They must have subscribed to Christine Rankin being appointed one of their commissioners, and they have her chaffing at the bit to have the law sanction the use of force against children.

I am only able to conclude that it is because it would be against predominant professional opinion and basic human rights that the Families Commission are giving what appears to be reluctant support to the law not being softened towards the use of force against children.

If there could be more material from the Academia which assists people who are not as convinced as I am that it is plain commonsense to not use force to correct children, then I would consider that to be gratifying.

Kiwi Chick   #35   02:56 pm Jul 02 2009

Except to say the herald have responded to embarrasment re the article pulling on other blogsand restored the article.

So for Murray the Macedemia lover who refuses to look at the facts here is some Academia without an M http://www.nzherald.co.nz/nz/news/article.cfm?c_id=1&objectid=10404809

Kiwi Chick   #34   02:51 pm Jul 02 2009

the article being deleted just proves the devotion to truth your pursuasion do not have. Murray You Church hater have no right to tell Christians what they believe. You don;t even know what is and isn't a Christian by their own standards..don't tell me what they believe. You support Lies and censorship...it figures so did Mao and all those deeply behind the Rape of Democracy in NEw Zealand. Mao and Stalin and his like also toook more lives than both world wars with their desire to be sociable. Which is the root cause behind Sues mission and Helens Do some homework Murray and stop spraying your ignorance across the web.

And Rex see my response to your void claims about straw men on the other place you are defending the indefensible here http://www.stuff.co.nz/dominion-post/news/2547977/77pc-oppose-anti-smacking-poll... Perhaps you look at the evidence I have linked in their that you and Key refuse to look at about prosecutions for light smacks. We both know CYFS has used its new weapon only sparingly until it knows it owns it for good.

Done all these points before to you two numbskulls so its over and out from me.

Rex   #33   01:16 pm Jul 02 2009

Kiwi Chick, don't worry. You don't need that article to make your point. All you need to do is give us examples of the law change leading to good parents being hauled into court or having their children taken away from them. Just do that and Uncle John will take this bad law away.

Murray   #32   01:16 pm Jul 02 2009

Well, Kiwi Chick(#30)/(#31), promoting law change which sanctions the use of force against children probably contravenes international human rights codes.

You cannot blame the NZ Herald for wanting to steer clear of such implication. It is most surprising and highly disappointing that it is Church-based political groups who are the advocates within New Zealand.

It is "force" you should be talking about, you know? That is the word that is used in both the original and the new legislation; not "a smack" as part of "good parenting" (and "a smack" is never ideal parenting) which is the deceiving language used by these cult religions to garner signatures for their unchristian cause.


Show 1-31 of 41 comments

Post comment


Required

Required. Will not be published.
Registration is not required to post a comment but if you , you will not have to enter your details each time you comment. Registered members also have access to extra features. Create an account now.


Maximum of 1750 characters (about 300 words)

I have read and accepted the terms and conditions
These comments are moderated. Your comment, if approved, may not appear immediately. Please direct any queries about comment moderation to the Opinion Editor at blogs@stuff.co.nz
Special offers
Opinion poll

Should Waitangi Day be used as a chance to party?

Yes, it is a good day to relax and let off steam.

No, it should be a day of reflection and respect.

I don't care. Everyone is different.

Vote Result

Related story: Disgust at drunk Kiwis in London

Featured Promotions

Sponsored Content