Stop judging my lunch

Last updated 09:52 04/03/2010

I'm so sick of the mantra of healthy choices. It’s all but shoved down our throats (excuse the pun)  how important those two words are when it comes to what we eat.Healthy choice

In most cases, I enjoy eating those healthy choices and feel better for doing so, but that is not the point. Not only are we expected to make the right food choice for ourselves, but it seems everyone else has assumed the right to monitor and judge our diets as well.

Am I the only one who finds this state of affairs insane, irritating  and downright rude? I don't care what you think of my dinner, thanks all the same.

One of my colleagues can be relied on to remark if any of us have the audacity to choose something on the indulgent side for lunch or if we make the occasional foray to the snack machine.

Actually, my lunch choice doesn’t even have to be unhealthy to fall foul of his judgment.

"Look at all those carbs, Ann” is something I’ve heard more than once from him, just because I’m eating pasta.  

When it comes to overindulgence, I’m not really a Maccas fan. I often feel eating the cardboard cartons instead of the contents would be tastier, easier to digest and more nutritionally balanced.

But I was more than a little flummoxed to read the Golden Arches and Weightwatchers have done a deal, with Weightwatchers endorsing some menu items and assigning them points.

It does seem like an uneasy alliance, but naturally, the points-calculated meals are those with salad and water or diet drinks - nary a fry or sugar-laden soft drink in sight.

However, according to the story, experts are not impressed.

"'Make no mistake, this is about selling more burgers and fries,' Boyd Swinburn, from the Australian Society for the Study of Obesity at Deakin University, said. 'Mum can go in and feel good about her Weight Watchers meal while she buys the kids burgers. Anyone who thinks otherwise is naive.'"

I’m inclined to agree. However, because I don’t eat red meat or chicken, there is a limited amount of menu options available to me at McDonalds and I don't have a high opinion of any of them. Except the fries. I do have a weakness for those.

So if I was tripping merrily into Maccas with good intentions of a purchasing a Fillet O Fish and a salad it would be very tough to say no to those golden potato wonders. Wouldn’t going in open me up to temptation? Those fries smell so good and I rather think I don't have the fortitude of Jesus in the desert.

But then, neither Weightwatchers nor McDonalds cares about me caving to temptation – they care about making money and this deal has to be winner for both of them.

But then again, it must be me who is at fault for failing to make the healhty choice. According to so many people, being overweight just comes down to willpower, right?

And I've stated before that technically, according to my BMI, I am overweight. (Like many triathletes.) When it comes to appearance, there’s nothing wrong with it, but I’m no skinny runner either.

Clearly then, given everyone eles's judgments, this must be about willpower. Sure, I have enough mental strength to push myself through an Ironman three times, through the inevitable blood, sweat and tears, but hey, I guess that’s just dumb luck.

Because the real measure of me as a person is my weight. Of course. How could I think otherwise?

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Leon   #1   10:25 am Mar 04 2010

Going to Maccers for healthy food makes as much sense as going to a nunnery for sex. Sure, you might get some, but it isn't exactly their speciality.

I am baffled by the McCafe ability to make their coffee taste like Maccers food. The regular Maccers coffee rather predicably tastes like a bicycle inner tube.

Yum   #2   10:26 am Mar 04 2010

BIG fan of those Macca's 'cardboard cartoons' Ann... :) :)

Louisette   #3   10:28 am Mar 04 2010

I'm right on board with you Anne. When we talk about weight these days we're usually talking about body image and the revolting Hollywood ideal of the size 00, when we should be talking about health and wellbeing. And what's with those sanctimonious lunch-judgers? It's none of their business what anyone else chooses to eat.

Graeme   #4   10:31 am Mar 04 2010

We have the same people at my work! I'll come in the morning eating a pie and they're like "Oh that's so unhealthy". My response is usually, "I gotta have a reason to go to the gym!"

Alice2   #5   10:37 am Mar 04 2010

I try to avoid weighing myself, simply because I know my weight is deceptive. Eyebrows shoot to the roof when trainers or doctors see the scales - I'm usually 5-10kg heavier than they would guess just from looking at me. And then the trainer keeps having to crank up the weights on the gym machines to give me any resistance. I tend to measure myself by my capabilities - speed & distance of swims & runs, how easy it is for me to climb the stairs at work, that sort of thing. It fits in better with my goals.

Kakapo   #6   10:48 am Mar 04 2010

Anyone gives me hassles about what I'm eating, I reply 'You don't get a fabulous body like this from passing up chocolate cake.' Forces them to switch from covert to overt a-holery if they want to continue their line of attack, but 99% are passive-aggressive twinks who don't have the balls to pursue it.

Rachael   #7   10:52 am Mar 04 2010

i eat what i want without caring what people think hence the reason i have demolished a can of red bull, and half a pack of rice crackers in the last hour alone

no longer having a job where im on my feet all day my have an effect on why my pants are all tighter, but im at the meh stage.

i really couldnt care less.

and thankfully i have a partner who cares more about the person on the inside than the packaging.

he buys me fancy cheese too :D

Jen   #8   10:53 am Mar 04 2010

@ Leon - FYI the more generally accepted term for a place that nuns live is a convent. Nunnery is slang for a brothel. In other words when Hamlet says to Ophelia "get thee to a nunnery" he's calling her a whore.

Sass   #9   10:56 am Mar 04 2010

Not unpredictably, Jenny Craig's have spoken out about the Weightwatchers/Maccas thing but I thought the rep on the radio this morning was fair enough in their comment about how it was like taking an alcoholic into a bar and expecting them not to drink. Personally, I eat pretty healthily when I have the range of options etc that I can get from shopping for my own food - take me out to lunch however, and as that's a treat I'll pick tasty but possibly not so nutritious over healthier every time. That's why going on holiday is so dangerous for me too - chips with every meal is my siren song. But urgh, I do not touch maccas with a 10 foot barge pole, not because I'm worried about grease/calories etc but because it actually makes me feel physically unwell/uncomfortable

I suspect your workmates are just winding you up re the lunch no?

Alice2   #10   10:57 am Mar 04 2010

I guess I'm also lucky at the moment, one of my workmates is pregnant & eating everything in sight, so there's no way anybody is ever going to make judgmental comments about food around here. We're also in a hospital, so the choices for lunch from the cafe are either healthy looking but taste awful, or delicious & full of fat & salt. Sweet sushi with undercooked, crunchy rice? No thanks, I'll have a sausage roll.


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