First steps in building trust with your dog

BY SIMON GOODALL
Last updated 09:04 22/02/2010

The other day I wrote about why dogs attack. I had linked this phenomenon over the years to losing trust from your dog. Today I'm looing at one way in which we can regain trust with the dog.

Walking the dogFirst you have to restrict boundaries with your dog while out walking. At Dog Guru we use what we call the "walk of respect". This involves starting by taking about a 10-metre walk, then turning around and walking another 10 metres, and doing this for about 30 seconds. (Feel free to do this down a nice quiet street so your neighbours don't notice!)

I want to also take emotion out of it. So don't look at the dog while you're doing this, otherwise your mind may feel sorry for the dog. Ignore the pulling on the lead at this stage.

You should find that the dog looks back at you by the end.

Once you've finally got the dog looking at you on the lead, you can start to talk about how to regain full trust with the dog. This is one way to do it where your dog was in control but has now had that taken away from it. Some of you mention you have dogs that sniff around; I don't care what sort of dog you have, it has to learn to look at you.

What we're trying to do is build another sense up. If your dog only listens out for you, then it will not hear you when focused on something else. Just test it on your partner while he's watching television: can he listen and watch television at the same time? Unlikely. Dogs are the same: once they are in the "zone" they're unable to hear your voice. If they have got so used to looking back at you, then they will just make it a force of habit.

We'll go through this step by step and see how we go. I don't want to give away too many secrets but see how you go with the "walk of respect" and give me your feedback using the comments below.

Simon Goodall is the director of Dog Guru, which has branches in the North Island and the South Island. Simon is a member of the International Association of Canine Professionals and International Association of Animal Behaviour Consultants. On Facebook? Check out Dog Guru.

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girl   #1   09:43 am Feb 22 2010

fantastic - will try tonight!

Sasha   #2   09:53 am Feb 22 2010

We're in the process of teaching our Ocicat kitten (nearly 4 months old) to walk on a lead - any tips for that? We got her used to the harness and then the lead inside and we have now taken her outside on our long deck and let her walk up and down (we let her walk and then walk along with her rather than trying to tug her along as then at least she'll understand what the point of the lead is). But some advice on the next step would be good - i.e. to get her walking with us...

BronteBelle   #3   09:56 am Feb 22 2010

Thanks for this insightful piece. I have noticed with my Cairn Terrier that if we are walking somewhere she is not familiar with, she will keep looking up at me and be waiting for my instruction. However, those places she is confident with, she wants to race ahead. I will try this walking thing and see how it goes. Cheers

SuziQ   #4   10:22 am Feb 22 2010

This is the same advice as given by dog obedience instructors years ago, only walking in a square. Depending on what you want while out walking whether you want your dog looking at you or not, while I am out walking we do a little bit of heelwork then the dog is released to have a sniff etc then we carry on for a walk and so on. I don't expect my dog to be exactly at the heel position for our entire walk, I like him to be able to act like a dog and to enjoy the walk.

LaDi   #5   10:31 am Feb 22 2010

Thanks Simon - will be sure to give that a go tomorrow morning on our walk.

Rubarb   #6   12:09 pm Feb 22 2010

I'm not sure I quite get the process. Is this to be done on a long-lead? Do you stop at the end of the 10metres and then walk on. Also - I found what SuzieQ mentioned to be good too. We are currently teaching our 8 month old Border Collie/Lab X to walk on the lead... it's been a long process, but this is because we are teaching him to walk to heel at all times. Thoughts on this would be great - I'd actually be happy as long as he wasn't tugging on the lead and knew how and when to walk to heel when I ask him too.

Also - when we see someone coming towards us, we stop and I ask Jackson (the dog) to look at me. Although if it's a cat or I'm not quick enough, then he can nearly pull me off my feet. This is defintely something I'm concerned about - so maybe a more detailed explanation of the process would be great?

He's done two puppy classes now and maybe we just need more practice out in the real world!

Donna   #7   12:32 pm Feb 22 2010

I'm with BronteBelle .. my pup is the same. will give this a go. I can just imagine the confusion on jacks face when i keep turning round. lol

CJ   #8   12:48 pm Feb 22 2010

Tried, tested and works!!

Well Simon, I suppose if you gave out all your secrets, you'll run out of business.

SuziQ   #9   01:07 pm Feb 22 2010

Rubarb#6 We used to do this exercise on a long line, we also used to walk to each corner of the square and stop the instant the dog looked away we would then walk on to the next corner without talking to the dog, as long as the dog was watching you (without you actually making eye contact) all is good. I don't really mind where my dog walks too much on walks as long as he does not pull, once he pulls I stop and call him back to heel, before setting off again. I used to stop when people came towards me now I just talk to the dog getting him to focus on me instead of anything else.

Sam   #10   01:29 pm Feb 22 2010

I tested out how often my Corgi looks at me, and its at least every 10 seconds when off the lead... some of this has come with age, he turns one tomorrow, and he certainly is less likely to do a runner than when he was 6 or even 9 months old.


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