Eat it fast or eat it slow

Last updated 09:01 07/09/2010

Are you a slow or a fast eater? Is eating for you all about the movement of food to your stomach, or is it more about the time you spend talking and enjoying another's company?

I spent the weekend in Queenstown and Cromwell working, and then was stranded here (far worse places for that to happen!) in part due to weather, and also due to the earthquake. It's become a regular occurrence over the last few months to see all the best-laid plans change before me. Really, cannot fault Jetstar's help in settling us into our hotel and feeding us. We spent all of monday busing up to Christchurch to fly out. Very thankful I only got to experience the aftershocks just a few times in Christchurch times, however - amazing people, the Cantabrians!

Those of you who read my blog about my stranding in Wellington a few months back may remember I met a German girl who then spent the last week of her trip with me before heading back home. I seem to have an ability to locate the Germans in the group, finding another one - also on his final week of a yearlong stay.  He had come down to Queenstown to present his research on our kiwifruit, before going home to complete his master's.

eating fastDaniel Mertten and I talked about the cultural differences between Germany and New Zealand, though, now I come to think of it, I really should have asked him about Moata's blog last week. (Okay just did, MUCH to his embarrassment and he CONFIRMED IT :D - oh and blushed. What, you can't ask that in casual conversation? Perhaps I shouldn't have asked in a crowded room...)

However, one thing he said was that living in New Zealand has taught him to eat fast. In Germany, he said, meals are not about the eating. They are about the conversation, the time together.

He likes our "sit down, eat and then up and away" culture, but I do think we have a lot to learn from that ability to sit and take things a little slower. For a start, we'd eat less. If we eat slowly, and it takes us 20 minutes to feel full, then we'd eat far less than someone taking huge bites and barely chewing.

Another person I talked to this weekend said that she often struggles to keep the pace of her husband while he eats, but doesn't want to eat slowly as she'd end up eating alone.

I like the idea of taking it a little slower. I've been reminded this weekend that many things in our life are out of our control. We do not need to live our lives, including our eating times, at a breakneck pace. We can afford to take a lunch break, time out for a meal and conversation in the evening, a slow breakfast if we get up early enough. We do not have to spend our time rushing, squeezing food in between the cracks of our busy-ness

Do you eat as a family, or alone (in front of your computer) and do you like to eat as a social event, or prefer it to be just an automatic must-do of your day, without ambience?

Rachel Goodchild is on Twitter and Facebook. 

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Lil Miss Trouble   #1   09:57 am Sep 07 2010

I dont think i eat fast or slow. I enjoy going out for dinenr with friends and then its more about the company than the food but eating at home is about re-fueling.

We usually eat at the table as a family when the kids are there and sometimes we eat at the table when they are not if the meal is a messy one (spaghetti and meatballs) but if not then its me in front of shortland st and him in front of facebook

Lil Miss Trouble   #2   10:06 am Sep 07 2010

I dont think i eat fast or slow, just average. We eat together at the table if we have the kids or if its just us and its a messy meal like spaghetti and meatballs but if not then its me in front of shortland Street and him in front of facebook

ScrabbleChick   #3   11:02 am Sep 07 2010

Meals in our house are always at the table, unless it's Friday night fish & chips in front of a DVD. Mealtimes are when we catch up on each others' day, talk about the news, make plans for the weekend and (subtly) learn table manners and social graces. The kids have to stay seated until everyone has finished. We probably do eat our food too quickly though - it's a national disease!

Simon   #4   12:22 pm Sep 07 2010

I was brought up to consider meal times to be family events. All up at the table, no-one leaves til everyone's finished; and I do the same with my family. As my Mum always said - its the only time we could be sure to be in the same place at the same time. Maybe that's why I'm still a slow eater - there was never any reason to rush?

n   #5   02:13 pm Sep 07 2010

i was a slow eater... then sped up to keep up with my partner so I didn't miss out, which in turn made him eat faster *lol* Now I eat slower and make sure to remind him that I don't require the same amount of food as him *grin* it's a WIP

Alice2   #6   02:33 pm Sep 07 2010

I have most meals with my flatmate - on the couch, but at the tall coffee table. I have noticed that he eats really fast. Even when I make sure to give him a larger portion, he's usually finished about 5min before me.

Sundays I have dinner with my parents. It's a leisurely thing, and we all chat & catch up. I've always been a fast eater - Mum used to comment that I'd take my bottle & drink the whole thing all at once when I was a toddler. I definitely notice my eating speed goes up if I'm alone & not talking/listening between mouthfuls.

xLeahx   #7   02:44 pm Sep 07 2010

I am a slow eater and I wish others would slow down. I like to eat slowly and savour my food. My hubby and his entire family eat so quickly it's like they think someone's going to steal their food if they don't eat quick enough. Going to dinner with them is a real pain as I always feel like I have to rush to eat otherwise they're all finished and I am the only one left eating. I secretly think people that eat fast are just pigs.

J. Ramirez   #8   02:49 pm Sep 07 2010

Maybe you don't know but now there are "Plates for eating slowly", they keep your food warm until you finish; They are also called "Heat Retentive Plates" and need only one minute preheating in the microwave oven, they remain still HOT after 30 minutes. Google "eating slowly" to learn about all the advantages; they are many.

AucklandWriter   #9   03:13 pm Sep 07 2010

How fast I eat depends on who I am eating with, but also what I am eating. I do eat fast to 'catch up' with the men in my life (usually over dinner) but also if I'm working through breakfast/lunch. On the other-hand, there are certain foods I will only eat alone - e.g. Magnums which I eat rarely and always savour.

Sal   #10   03:25 pm Sep 07 2010

I enjoy eating slowly and savouring my food and I do this whether I'm alone or with others. Only thing is when I'm eating with others I find myself apologising for taking so long. I feel this is a bit backwards.

As someone who pours a lot of time and love into preparing beautiful food and baking for others, I almost feel offended when my creations get wolfed down, too! I'd never say it of course... but come on, if a cake took hours to make and decorate what's up with inhaling it without a thought?


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