Can I do without it?

Last updated 12:07 24/02/2010

CupboardSo you know that we have been looking to buy a house, and as we've progressed on our journey we've come to realise that the places in our price range are mostly very small. Realistically, if we're to be comfortable in one of these houses, we're going to have to seriously downsize in the stuff department.

At present we are living a life of luxury in a massive flat that has loads of storage, but my friends, when we get a place of our own we will no longer be living in the manner to which we have become accustomed. Gone will be the days of shoving all manner of crap into our endless cupboards!

I am mentally preparing myself for the day when we will finally buy this elusive little house of ours, and so lately, as I float around our current flat, I keep finding myself making notes of things I could possibly do without. I figure it will probably be easier if I begin emotionally distancing myself before being forced to physically part with my beloved miscellany.

On the weekend, while dancing around inside our huge hall cupboard, I bumped into my snowboard and was suddenly faced with a dilemma. Should it stay or should it go?

I'm not going to lie to you by saying the snowboard has spent a heap of time on actual snow. In fact if I were to advertise it for sale I'd probably use phrases like "excellent condition", "one old lady owner" and "barely used".

So sure, I'm not exactly a snow bunny, but I'm proud of my very limited snowboarding skills because I pretty much suck at every other physical activity I've ever tried my hand (feet, body, whatever) at, yet I have managed to make my way down a slope or two without incident.

SB bailWell, without serious incident. There was that one time I failed to speed-check and caught an edge on some ice. I remember seeing snow, then sky then snow again, and somehow my feet were over my head and my goggles were two metres away with the lens even further away again. A sizeable bump and bruise appeared on my eyebrow, I was wobbly for a bit, and my vision was blurred at the edges, but apart from that I was fine.

I even lugged that snowboard to the other side of the world in order to hone my skills on the French Alps, but, in true Jane style, I ended up with a nasty chest infection that saw me bailed up in bed for days while everyone else played around in the snow. I did manage to get two half days in - one on Mt Pila in Italy, and one at some little resort in the south of France.

Even though it's nice to be able to tell my friends I boarded in Europe, it really wasn't worth traipsing that damn thing through the UK, France, and Japan for. Also, saying that makes me sound like I am quite skilled on a snowboard when really, I'm still just a beginner.

Yeah, the board hasn't had a lot of use, but I'd like to think that one day I might get back on it and give this snowboarding business another decent crack.

So back to the original question, do I keep the snowboard or sell it? If I keep it, it will take up space and probably only be used once in a blue moon. If I sell it, I have a feeling I will also be selling my motivation to ever get to a mountain again. I know you're thinking I should just hire gear, but I know me well enough to know that without my own equipment, I won't make the effort. Stupid, but true.

A little help on this would be great if you could, and also are you holding on to something you may never use again just because you like the idea that you might use it again one day?

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NoAngel   #1   12:20 pm Feb 24 2010

"Are you holding on to something you may never use again just because you like the idea that you might use it again one day?"

Yeah - the ex husband :-)

Karlos   #2   12:27 pm Feb 24 2010

I'm a bit of a hoarder sometimes - I hang onto things just incase they become collectors items in 50 years time, or I have intentions of using them someday. I really should throw away my VCR, Nintendo64, Playstation 1, text book on using Adobe Photoshop (probably about 3 versions out of date!), rollerblades, stack of FHM magazines and probably a load of other things that I've long since forgotten about.

I'll never throw away any of my old guitars though, even though I've got newer/better ones now, those babies are going to the grave with me!

NoAngel   #3   12:28 pm Feb 24 2010

In all seriousness, make the hard decisions - and lose the board. I dumped my ski's but kept the boots because you never know when a white weekend is in order, even if its just tobagonning with the kids. (I rented gear at Whistler in Canada, and really wished I had my own broken in boots).

I have very little storage, and two growing active boys. Am always rearranging the house to fit more in - the latest being a drum kit - which has slowly made its way from the lounge to the dining, whilst the dining table made its way to the conservatory. Whilst the laundry that was in there, finally made its way to the drawers. Win/win.

Hans_Blix   #4   12:39 pm Feb 24 2010

Can't help, But I'm going to Pila in July/August to do some mountain biking, looking forward to it. Also a bit in France too.

Maybe I can help, if you haven't actually used something in some arbitrary time (12months?) then get rid of it.

Booboo   #5   12:43 pm Feb 24 2010

Well i say sell it, snowboarding is awesome expensive fun and if your going to have a mortgage then you wont be spending too much money on the holdiays that require ALOT of cash....

I hate having too many useless things taking up room just because you 'might' use it again.

Fraser The Amazer   #6   12:45 pm Feb 24 2010

Having recently shifted I realised the amount of junk I had to get rid of or transplant. I have all the snowboard gear and no snowboard maybe something can be worked out?

Not again   #7   12:53 pm Feb 24 2010

If you could stop with the 'old lady' references, I for one would be grateful, I'm not sure if it's intentional and you don't want older people reading you blog, but it is getting older than the old lady references themselves.

Sorry if I sound like an 'old hag lady' but really!

MsM   #8   01:15 pm Feb 24 2010

Hello? What are parents/siblings for if they can't store your crap? You could say that whoever stores it is welcome to use it whenever they like.

summer   #9   01:20 pm Feb 24 2010

@ Not again #7 - i think what jane means when shes saying 'old ladies' is like the wee lil 90 year old grandma who as driven the same car since she can remember... that kinda 'old lady'. Of course, if you are a 90 year old grandma, then a) i apologise for stereotyping and b) big ups for blogging. You are one cool 'old lady' :-)

Donut   #10   01:21 pm Feb 24 2010

I have shifted so many times in the past year that I've slowly adjusted to not having stuff 'just in case'. The more stuff you have, the more it's a pain to move. How often have I actually said "I'm stoked that I held on to that *insert object* for the last 2 years, because I now actually want to use it!" Very rarely happens for me.....

In saying that though, aren't snowboards really expensive? If it costs a lot, then I actually would keep it. Maybe.

Didn't help much, did I?


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