Rough day on the job

Last updated 10:55 03/03/2010

Bad dayMy job can be stressful at times. Actually, that's probably downplaying it - my job often has me wide-eyed and jittery, wringing my hands and totally strung out.

Sometimes when I arrive home from a full-on day at the office, Joel will take one look at me and I see a look of panic spread across his face as he takes in my white knuckles and grinding teeth.

Yes, I have stressful days, and lots of them. I've learnt to cope with the stress and it's kinda just part of how I roll at work now.

What is less common is for me to have a bad day, and yet this week I have already enjoyed (ha!) two bad days in a row. It's only Wednesday... boy, I can't wait to see what the rest of the week throws at me.

A good deal of my job involves dealing with media types along with local and visiting music artists. As you can imagine, there can be challenges involved, I come across difficult characters on a regular basis, but that stuff I can manage. Working with amazing people and total dickheads is par for the course and for me it's not the behaviour of others that can push a stressful day over the line to a bad day.

A bad day for me is one where I feel like I'm not communicating effectively. I've spent the last two days trying to explain things from my side of the story, and I just don't think I've done a very good job of getting my message across. I may as well have had cotton wool stuffed into my mouth.

I can't go into specifics because:
a) It would be terribly unprofessional of me to do so, and I'd probably get fired - which certainly wouldn't help improve my week.

b) You would no doubt find it very boring.

All you need to know is I've had one thing after another going wrong at work, and it seems that as soon as I've laid one tricky situation to bed another leaps up in order to punch me in square in the face. Normally I can deal with these things; I'd even go so far as to say I quite enjoy turning situations around, however I've let things get to me in the last couple of days and as a result I came home from work yesterday feeling demoralized and downright miserable.

Unsurprisingly, the last thing I felt like doing when I got home was tootling off to dance class, but I went, and I sucked, and I was at least reassured that there isn't a glitch in the matrix after all; some things are the same as they ever were.

I'm hoping today will be a better day and I'll be back on form. Oh dear God, please let today be a better day...

Thanks for letting me rant - I know there are bigger problems in the world, there always are, but if I can't have a wee emo moment here every now and again, then this blog wouldn't be a very real representation of my life.

So, in summary, I had a couple of suckful days at work. Tell me, what constitutes a bad day on the job for you?

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LB   #1   11:04 am Mar 03 2010

Awww hope you have a better day today Jane! Sucks how work can really get to us sometimes.

I had a sucky day on Friday because the project I was looking forward to doing got canned. :( Was so frustrating because I totally understand the reason it got canned, but because of daft processes and contracts and politics there is nothing I can do about it. And now I have hardly any work on which is sooooooo boring. I hate having nothing to do.

Sam   #2   11:14 am Mar 03 2010

One thing I find makes for a bad day is other people's inability/unwillingness to answer the phone. Why is it that some days every number you call goes to voicemail (and every email response is an out of office reply)? I have a rule now - I will only ring you once and if you chose not to answer, the ball's in your court, you return my call, I'm not ringing you again.

Leon   #3   11:14 am Mar 03 2010

Being at the wrong end of the foodchain under four levels of management and a couple of politicians means that a bad day at work for me can be truly unpleasant. Again, without going into gory details. However it does enlighten one greatly on the subject of how much power MP's *think* they have (all the power) compared to how much power they *actually* have (there's ONE law, and it's the same law for everyone). People who work in MP's offices can be absolutely shocking to deal with though, as they come in all guns blazing and try to act like they personally are running the country. Guess what, if your job title shows that you're basically the person in charge of clearing out the drains and making cups of tea ... well, if you try leaning on me you're going to be asked if you like sex and travel :-)

Fraser The Amazer   #4   11:16 am Mar 03 2010

Well im not realy going to get into what I do (im not ashamed id just rather they didnt find out I was blogging during worktime) suffice to say I deal with people on a daily basis which often results in unhappy people for a variety of different reasons.

I have to get in contact with people on a daily basis and give them either good or bad news if I have dished out a lot of bad news that can get me down but hopefully there is enough good news to give so it all evens out in the end!

paul   #5   11:21 am Mar 03 2010

Pretty much the same - communicating with people and failing. Systems failing. Stupid people failing. Whole lot of fail going on.

Though I take heart in the fact I'm not the guy who worked as a deep sea diver and had the warm water pumped down through his suit to keep him from getting hypothermia. His bad day at work was when a jellyfish got sucked up by the warm water pump, shredded and pumped down the pipe and bits of jellyfish circulated through his suit. There was a delay of several hours until they could get him back to the surface which would have felt even longer being stuck by bits of jellyfish everywhere during that time.

Darth Michael   #6   11:33 am Mar 03 2010

@ Jane Yee

If you get stressed by difficult "characters", I want to be a fly on the wall if you get to meet with Lady Gaga next week, rofl ;-) That girl is a freeeeeeeak.

Btw, Jane, for our lunch meeting next week I will require a large bowl of yellow M&Ms, brown pebbles and pink jellybeans, in equal proportions. For drinks, I will require you to personally hand-cut a chunk of ice from Icebeg B-17B and carry it to my table while dressed like Rambo (WITH machine gun). Oh, and instead of using my name, you should address me as "Captain Awesome" (spot the fan of Chuck - no surprises there, lol). Please remember to bow down graciously as you say it :-)

You lucky girl. Even if this week is crap, you now have next week to look forward to with eager anticipation :-)

Karlos   #7   11:56 am Mar 03 2010

It must be something about this week because I've had two days in a row now that started off having to sort out stressful 'communication' issues! After working a few years in retail dealing with difficult customers daily, my job now is pretty stress free, but this week has been different. I'll just go for a run or play some bass at the end of the day and everything will be all good again!

Plus there are plenty of people dealing with stuff 1000 times worse than what I have to so it's all good really. Hope your week gets better Jane!

Andrew   #8   11:56 am Mar 03 2010

Hang in there.

Louisette   #9   11:58 am Mar 03 2010

Poor Jane. I hope your week picks up. Sometimes I have days when I just can't seem to explain myself in a way that the other person understands, and it sure sucks.

I've had a couple of notable bad days recently, with my workload unexpectedly doubling. No, that wasn't an exaggeration. It actually did double overnight. It was all a communicatons issue - they didn't bother to communicate to my team what they needed us to do, and now there are only a couple of months left in which to do a vast ammount of work. This happens every year in my Department when they see the end of the financial year approaching and get into a flap. In some ways it's no bad thing, since it gave me a legitimate excuse to shovel off a chore I don't want to do onto a colleague I don't like, but it did come as a shock.

NoAngel   #10   12:03 pm Mar 03 2010

"...I'm not communicating effectively. I've spent the last two days trying to explain things from my side of the story..."

Sounds like my really, really bad week last week... which culminated in a bad day at work Friday - being advised there will be redundancies at 1 July and my job is in the firing line.


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