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Advice: My parents don't approve

05:15am 22 May 2014

He loves her, but his parents don't approve. Their reason for not doing so seems absurd but their threatened action if he doesn't listen is very serious. What should he do? 

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Hi,

I am a 28 year old first-born son of Asian decent and I am extremely close with my parents.

Because of their continual support, I am now quite comfortable financially. I currently work in Wellington and have just bought a house here. It is their hope that I will return to Auckland (where they reside) soon so I can look after them when they get older.

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Advice: Why won't he propose?

09:18am 17 Apr 2014

She's been with him for eight years and wants to get married ... should she wait for him to ask? 

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Help,

How do I tell my my boyfriend of seven-eight years that if he doesn't want to get engaged/married soon I want out. I think the problem is that he is younger then me: I'm 29, he's 26.

He talks about how much he loves me - we're soulmates etc, but often his actions are conflicting. It makes me wonder if he is really that into me?  

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Advice: Stuck in the middle

05:11am 13 Mar 2014

She's found herself in the middle of her parent's divorce drama and she wants out. 

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Hi, 

This is more of a family issue than a love life issue, I hope that's ok. It's a long story but needs to be explained to fully understand the situation.

I'm 21 and in 2010 my parents split up. I was in my last year of high school and my younger sister was in her second to last, so it was a bit of a trying time for all involved.

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Advice: I found his porn

05:00am 27 Feb 2014

She found some worrying things on his phone and their computer ... can she get the trust back? 

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Hi there,

I've been with my husband for six years, married for three years. 

Recently I found photos on his phone of women tattood half naked, bent over in g-strings. Then to top it off, the day after I found photos on his phone I was on the computer looking in the history and found he had been looking up 
porn and websites for one night stands.

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Advice: I want him back

05:00am 23 Jan 2014

They split up but she still loves him and he's sending her the right signs. Should she wait? 

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Dear Life & Style, 

I'm stuck. 

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