How to prevent Christmas tree carnage

Last updated 08:13 19/12/2012
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TOO TEMPTING: A tree full of shiny ornaments and lights is a tempting thing for little hands.
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CHRISTMAS TREE

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If this is your first Christmas with a toddler in the house, you may be wondering how you'll keep your Christmas treasures out of curious little hands.

To be fair to the kids, the room just got a big tree with lights and spinny things on it. Who could resist investigating it every chance they get?

Here's a game plan to keep your toddler from pulling the tree down, or from hurling your grandmother's antique ornament across the room.

Secure it

You know those ceiling hooks you can hang potted plants from? Those are a good solution to tipping Christmas trees. Use fishing line to secure the top of the tree to the hook. You could also do this mid-tree to a back wall.

Pyramid of greatness

The Christmas tree should have the most rare and important baubles on top, proceeding in descending order to the plastic ornament that came in a cereal box on the bottom; as Hilary Duff, mum to Luca, 9 months, says, "Obviously we have a funny looking Christmas tree [because] all the ornaments are at the top." Don't kid yourself that you can just teach them not to touch the tree. Sure, you might, but on the off chance your child has normal human curiosity, keep any valuables out of reach.

Let them touch stuff

Here's where it can get tricky, but you can stave off a fight by actually letting your child touch stuff under certain rules. One method that can work is to let the children touch anything on the tree they like - but with only one finger. Kids can't do too much damage poking at it, and it usually satisfies curiosity. The same works with decorations such as nativity scenes or Christmas presents. You can also sit them in your lap and let them touch it softly as you show them how to gently admire it.

Notice good behaviour

Instead of saying "Don't touch this" and "Don't touch that", 10 times a day notice and praise your children when they're near the tree or decorations and they don't get grabby. Even if they didn't mean to, by "catching" them acting right, and getting praise for it, chances are good you'll see more positive behaviour.

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- Essential Baby

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