Shalvin Prasad remembered a year since horror death

06:20, Jan 31 2014
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REMEMBERED: Shalvin Prasad's family, from left: Pravin Prasad, Pravin's wife Sonam Prasad, mother Shammi Prasad and father Ravin Prasad at a memorial match in Takanini.

It's a year to the day since the Prasad family lost their beloved Shalvin.

His body was found burnt on the side of a road in the south Auckland suburb of Kingseat.

The months have been hard for the Flat Bush family and the murder trial for the two men accused of burning him alive is still to come.

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HOMICIDE VICTIM: Shalvin Prasad.

"It still hurts as the first day he left the house," older brother Pravin said.

"Shalvin was a very loud person, he used to listen to a lot of music.

"We feel it when we get home, it's very quiet."


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KITTED UP: Shalvin's family and friends, dressed in his favourite colours yellow and black, held a memorial football game with his old social team on Sunday.

About 150 people gathered at a park in Takanini on Sunday for a memorial football game to remember and celebrate the 21-year-old's life. Family and friends took on Shalvin's old social team from the Manukau United club, where he was a goalkeeper.

"Coming up to a year of his passing we thought what better tribute to give to him," Prasad said.

"He was absolutely crazy for the sport. We knew Shal was there in spirit, trying to look after that goal."

FRAMED MEMORY: Pravin Prasad with the goalkeeper shirt his brother used to wear. The shirt hangs in his old room.

Pravin and father Ravin also used to play football with Shalvin at the park every Sunday.

"So it was fitting that we actually went back and played there."

The Prasads came to New Zealand from Fiji in 1999, living in Manurewa before moving to Flat Bush in 2005. The family is tight-knit, with Pravin and his wife living with his parents in the family home.

"We always stayed together, even when I got married about three years ago," Pravin Prasad said.

That tightness has helped them through.

"We've looked after each other, made sure that everyone is there for each other when the support is needed."

The murder trial is due to start in the High Court in Auckland on July 7.

Prasad said it would be tough but the family had broken it down into steps to make it manageable.

"We frequently sit together and talk about it.

"We see it as another challenge that we have to face. We've had a lot of challenges in the last year."

Two weeks ago the Prasads finished a year of Hindu rituals and prayers for Shalvin, and were thankful for the community support.

Prasad said the memorial football match was successful.

"Those people that came out and supported us gave us enormous belief that going forward we can rely on people out there to come and support us when July 7 comes around."

Shalvin was a foundation student at Botany Downs Secondary College before working fulltime in the Botany Pak 'n Save produce section.

Prasad said his brother was a lovable workaholic.

"He was always one of the first guys you saw. People remember him through that because he always had such a chirpy face and he was always smiling no matter what mood he was in."

He had a lot of friends and kept in contact with them, even if he hadn't seen them in years.

"That was something quite special about him, I find, because although he's not here now you can see people flooding into his Facebook page." 

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