Grieving Southland husband's plea heard
A Southland father of three, who lost his wife to bowel cancer following a shock diagnosis the day after the birth of their third daughter, has been overwhelmed by the level of support from wellwishers throughout New Zealand.
Yesterday, just five weeks after losing his wife Megan, 31, Hamish Menlove issued a plea to anyone with health concerns to act on them. Megan's battle with cancer went undetected until the day after the birth of Alice on March 1 - despite several visits to her Brisbane doctor who put her symptoms down to pregnancy.
The difficult decision to publicise his family's devastating story had already had positive spinoffs with many people openly discussing health issues on social media platforms yesterday.
Several friends had also contacted Mr Menlove to inform him they'd been prompted to visit the doctor after hearing of Megan's battle.
"I'm pleased to hear people are taking their health seriously and have been to get tested."
The Menlove family had also been inundated with offers of support which had been humbling, he said.
An online fundraiser set up by friends had already raised more than $13,000 for Sophia, 4, Emma, 2, and 11-week-old Alice Menlove.
A Facebook fundraising page, also launched by friends, had been auctioning donated items and a charity evening in Queenstown on May 31 will raise $7500 in ticket sales alone.
The Southland Times had also been contacted by many readers wanting to know how they could help in some way.
On Facebook, Southern Steel said Netball New Zealand had donated two double passes to today's sold-out Steel v Magic game in Invercargill. "Megan's story has touched everyone here at Southern Steel. She was a talented netballer in her youth and a wonderful person," the posting said.
The highest bidders on the tickets would win with the money going to the Megan Menlove fund.
Anyone wanting to donate to the fund for the girls can visit givealittle.co.nz/cause/4meganmenlove or make a deposit into an account opened for the girls at the BNZ 02 0924 0111528 00.
- © Fairfax NZ News
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