Online postings can be destructive for kids

ANGELA CUMING
Last updated 05:00 28/01/2012

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Digital records are a potential danger for children.

Kiwi children are potentially destroying their futures online and parents should keep tabs on them through Facebook and Google alerts to stop them tarnishing their reputations.

The call to digital arms was made by American teacher and education expert Kevin Honeycutt in his keynote address at a major education conference held in Hamilton yesterday.

More than 1300 teachers and principals attended the Learning@School conference at Claudelands Event Centre to hear talks on key issues facing New Zealand schools and classrooms.

A focus was the growth of technology and social media inside and outside the classroom.

Mr Honeycutt said children and parents must be wary about the permanent "digital records" that are built through their online activity.

"A child can destroy their whole future with one keystroke," he said. "What worries me is a lot of adults are not aware of this.

"It is like we have let our kids out into the digital social media playground but we have forgotten to put anyone on recess duty.

"Once a child has pushed that button [to post something online], it is out there forever."

Parents should take an active interest in what their child gets up to online, he said.

"Each and every parent out there should create a Google alert with their child's first name," he said. The system available through the web giant sends a message to users when a particular word or phrase – in this case their child's name – pops up online. Parents would then know what they were saying and what was being said about them.

"They need to know what their digital branding is, so to speak, what they are leaving behind online. Because once it's published on the web it is there forever."

Parents and teachers needed to get up to speed on the dangerous nature of social networking sites, but not to be afraid to let children use new technology in ways that can help them learn.

"I don't think technology is the cavalry coming over the hill but to ignore the potential of technology would be like ignoring medicine in a time of widespread illness," he said.

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David H   #18   06:50 pm Jan 31 2012

"Each and every parent out there should create a Google alert with their child's first name."

Are you Joking ? Or do you get paid for each new alert???.

This is so sycophantic I had to check it twice.

Jay   #17   11:23 pm Jan 29 2012

A little education goes a long way. I agree that wrapping the kids up in cotton wool never works, prevention is always better than the cure. Yes, it is unfair that you can be judged on what you post/say/do/look or how you act, but in the real world actions have very real consequences. It is one of the reasons we teach our children how to interact socailly in an acceptable fashion. The ones who fail to learn this, life brings up to speed real fast. In the end, all our children have to go on is what we teach them, so I suggest we teach them well. In real life you don't get three lives, there are no respawns, and once something is done, its permanence is etched into history. Knowledge is power, so lets empower our kids. No shield exists that can hold back reality.

Seeder   #16   12:36 pm Jan 29 2012

Taking the kid's perspective, why are you letting them be cotton-swathed so that no damaged can come to this? Kids that aren't censored have made successful businesses by 12, and if you can teach your kid common sense then they'll be fine at 8. I was. I don't see how it's so horrible.

Roger   #15   02:48 am Jan 29 2012

It is my opinion that digital records should have no part in the recruitment of jobs. Someone should not be deemed to have lost their credibility because of a post they made when they were 14. Social networks create artificial interaction. None of it is communicatively rich and, ofcourse, anything on the internet is interpreted by the reader which screws up meanings etc. Therefore, anything posted online is not a fair representation of the person. I think this will become less of an issue in the future. The older generations have a degree of maturing to do when it comes to this topic. Not that posting porn or bullying should be accepted. Its completely unfair to judge a persons value by a bit-part block of information on the internet. Unfair and, quite frankly, its an archaic idea that someone would be punished for taking advantage of a tremendous tool.

Veritas   #14   12:35 am Jan 29 2012

This is high handed nonsense. With childeren aged below eight, I could understand the need to watch what they see on the internet, but monitoring everything your child does just because some self proclaimed 'expert' in another continent is technophobic seems petty and obsessive. Childeren need a certain degree of freedom, and while there may be dangers on the internet, I really do not think that a future boss will be interested in something their prospective employee said when they were five years old.

Seriously. Just warn your childeren not to post private information, rather than involving yourself in a Big Brother-esque plot to monitor everything they do.

NB   #13   09:44 pm Jan 28 2012

Maybe we (society) should be bringing our kids up with proper values so they're not posting half naked pictures of themselves online.

attendee   #12   07:57 pm Jan 28 2012

As someone who was at this speech this is a very poor write up of what was said. In particular when you put info to print and make an error that was so glaring. If you typed in a childs first name to Google alert as if you are going to find info on your child unless you have an extremely unusual name. This was an amazing speech on where education is headed and this is what you come up with. What a shame for NZ.

Rachel   #11   via mobile 07:04 pm Jan 28 2012

Would be good if Kevin was actually quoted correctly! I was at the conference, the instruction was to set up the google alerts using your child's FULL name inside speech marks. The instructions from Dee above are great - parents, go do this!

Frederick   #10   06:28 pm Jan 28 2012

Most stuff isn't on the internet forever. How many 10 year old websites haven't been revamped with all the content lost forever?

This is just another fear-mongering article about "kids these days". 100 years ago they were sent down into the mines as soon as they could crawl!

CJM   #9   06:27 pm Jan 28 2012

@ Amanda #8 I'm not sure what's on your FB page that would put you out of contention for a job when a potential employer is scrutinising your CV. Personally I don't have anything that I believe would jeopardise my job propects or anything I'm ashamed of to be honest. I'm not saying I'm perfect - far from it - but I certainly don't put my private details, many negative thoughts about people or splash my personal life around online!


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