Musician and wife commit suicide
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He spent his life conducting, but was almost blind and deaf - the music he loved increasingly out of reach. His wife of 54 years had been diagnosed with terminal cancer. So Edward and Joan Downes decided to die together.
Downes - Sir Edward since he was knighted by Queen Elizabeth II in 1991 - and his wife ended their lives last week at a Zurich clinic run by the assisted suicide group Dignitas.
They drank a small amount of clear liquid and died hand-in-hand, their two adult children by their side. He was 85 and she was 74.
The deaths were a poignant coda to Edward Downes' illustrious musical career, and have reignited a debate in Britain about whether people should be able to help ailing loved ones end their lives.
The couple's children said that they died "peacefully and under circumstances of their own choosing" on Friday.
"After 54 happy years together, they decided to end their own lives rather than continue to struggle with serious health problems," said the couple's son and daughter, Caractacus and Boudicca.
"They wanted to be next to each other when they died," Caractacus Downes told London's Evening Standard newspaper. "They held hands across the beds.
"It is a very civilised way to be able to end your life," he added.
Downes' manager Jonathan Groves said the couple were inseparable and would have reached the decision together.
"Sir Edward would have survived her death, but he decided he didn't want to. He didn't want to go on living without her," Groves said.
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One of Britain's most renowned conductors, Downes had a long and eminent career, which included years as head of the BBC Philharmonic and a five-decade association with the Royal Opera House.
In recent years he had become almost blind and nearly deaf, increasingly relying on his wife for support.
Joan, a former ballet dancer, choreographer and television producer, had devoted years to working as his assistant, but she was recently diagnosed with cancer of the liver and pancreas, and given only weeks to live.
Groves said he was shocked by the couple's deaths but called their decision "typically brave and courageous."
The double suicide is the latest in a series of high-profile cases that have spurred calls for a legal change in Britain, where assisted suicide and euthanasia are banned.
Under British law, assisting a suicide is punishable by up to 14 years in prison. But courts have become reluctant in recent years to convict people.
No relative or friend of any of the Britons who have died in Dignitas clinics has been prosecuted.
The Metropolitan Police force said it had been notified of the deaths, and was investigating. Charges are unlikely.
Despite evidence of changing attitudes, parliamentary efforts to change the rules have all been defeated - most recently last week, when Parliament's upper chamber, the House of Lords, voted down an amendment that would have relaxed the prohibition on assisted dying.
Sarah Wootton, chief executive of campaign group Dignity in Dying, said the couple's deaths showed the need to regulate assisted suicide.
"This problem is clearly not going to go away," she said.
"People should be able to make such decisions for themselves, but safeguards are the key," she said.
'SUICIDE TOURISM'
Peter Saunders, of the anti-euthanasia group Care Not Killing, argued that loosening the law could "put vulnerable people, many of whom already think they are a financial or emotional burden to relatives, carers and the state, under pressure to end their lives through a change in the law."
More than 100 Britons have died in Swiss clinics run by Dignitas since the organisation was established in 1998.
The organisation takes advantage of the country's liberal laws on assisted suicide, which suggest that a person can be prosecuted only if they are acting out of self interest.
Roughly 100 foreigners - most of them terminally ill - come to Switzerland each year to end their lives. Some are healthy except for a disability or severe mental disorder.
Typically they go to a room run by Dignitas, which provides them with a lethal drink of barbiturates. In five minutes they fall asleep - and never wake up.
Other countries, including the Netherlands and Belgium, and the states of Oregon and Washington in the United States, allow the incurably sick to obtain help from a doctor to hasten their death.
Only Switzerland, in a law dating back to 1942, permits foreigners to come and kill themselves. Other organisations provide such services for Swiss residents, but Dignitas is the main organisation for foreigners.
Critics accuse Dignitas of promoting "suicide tourism."
Dignitas charges 10,000 Swiss francs ($14,343) for its services, which include taking care of legal formalities and arranging consultations with a doctor willing to prescribe the barbiturates.
Edward Downes is one of the most prominent Britons to have travelled to Switzerland because of its open attitude toward the practice.
- AP
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The attitudes of #19 are probably why it hasn't been passed into law just yet...
I agree with the majority on here though - I think that since we have free will in most every other aspect of our lives, why can't we choose when we die? I mean, it shouldn't necessarily be easy, and counseling and such should be offered to people who want to take this, so they can perhaps find a way to enjoy what life they have left, but if you're in a truly unrecoverable situation, like the two in this article, where one has weeks to live and the other is likely to be unable to do anything by himself, well, I reckon this is easier all around. You don't have to suffer. Your relatives don't have to go through the pain of watching you suffer, we don't have to spend huge amounts of money on old-age care to keep you alive, despite the fact that you don't *want* to live, etc.
But it does need careful attention to make sure that people don't pressure elderly relatives into taking an early death, despite the fact that they might still be independent and able to enjoy life, which is really the thing that worries me.
Die with dignity at the end of a full and fruitful life.
Or when 'god wants you to' after years of excrutiating pain, degridation and amputation.
I would support anybody I love if this was the choice they made.
By the time I am unable to clean myself after I have involuntarily defecated, unable to move from my 'let god choose' death bed or am unable to remember my family and friends or the wonderful life I had - I hope that I will be given the choice during one of my lucid moments.
Too many people I loved relied on the 'gentle caress' of a morphine drip in their last months on Earth. I do not want to put my family through that.
@Quentin - what a horrible assumption to make.
I think the first post was perfect:
"I want the right to choose"
Like with abortion and freedom of religion, the right to choose is also the right to choose not to.
@GGG
..your free to have your own opinion on this matter but to say they are going to hell is just sad and frankly uncalled for, a simple I don't approve would be fine.
and as for me, I'm pro choice...simple as that.
GGG #19
Not everyone believes in GOD.
GGG - You're absolutely spot on. It is just your view.
It's a shame you don't have a compassionate God. What on Earth makes you (or your particular choice of God) think life isn't meant to be easy?
Funny how a number of replies talk about 'dignity' and 'courage'. To me dignity and courage is about how you conduct yourself in the face of adversity, not about the means you choose to end it. My dad was brave and dignified all through his last days with a brain tumour, despite the ravages it caused to his body. At no stage would he have let us children know that it is ever ok to give up. Now that's courage.
Quentin you’re either an idiot or a very sadistic person. Supporting their parents with regards to this shows how much respect and love they have for them. The right to choose should be universal, with some restrictions and guidelines of course.
They are probably going to hell.
I am of the belief that it is your time to go when god says, not when YOU decide. Life isn't meant to be easy.
Take time to think about all the people / babies that have been murdered etc - they obviously didn't have a choice so why should we just because we feel we can't handle the pain and suffering. I have seen and nursed many family members with terminal illness (cancer) and not one of them have suggested to give up and just "end it all".
But hey, thats just my view.
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#19 - Trust someone to bring religion into this. Save it for Sunday school mate.
Pro choice all the way.